Tuesday, December 16, 2025

MARRIAGE PROPOSALS, ITS CURRENT TRENDS

L Hari πŸ•‰ Kalai Vanakkam! Very Good Morning! to you Gentleman & the Group. Hope all of you *had a meaning full, utilatrian, value based the week* last and an enjoyable weekend with family & friends.

I am confident all the Group is *poised with all rejuvenated energy for ever encouraging* week ahead.

I am in receipt of this post, probably,  in  indirect continuation to earlier post on the *Sensitive* subject as "Marriage Proposals & Alliances- its current trends"

Indeed the trend is of a very  serious concern for all irrespective of whoever & wherever they are . And even enormously & exponentially serious to *detrimental & hazardous levels for Future Generations,* if we look at it with all the foresight- *as considerations for  PD Community Oneness & Utiltarianism* .

As you already offered to tell, the trend is in existence everywhere around.

To offer more clarity, the current societal *Resultant*  trend is  

 " *an aimless Diffident Panic Run ( Padatta Ottam)"* with Herd Instinct under constant cognitive influence of Apparent Uncertanities (but not actually true). The so said *Run* is by and large for a supposed *Safety & Secuirty in all Arena*. In reality,  the Run is taking the *Trend Setters*  away from the "Safety & Security".  The gravity of the situation is that  *Every Runner is a competitor for every other* . So it is a *Solitaire Non-stop Marathon* for each one of us in the thick and thin of the chaos in the World.

The tragical part is our(parents) status is reduced to **silent helpless spectators* and also mechanically driven into the trend for justifications. If , we closely retrospect, we would be in a position to realise that we are the *Trend Initiators*, of  course collectively, being part of the society. Therefore, Individually also we all owe the responsibility towards the committments.

This is all effected, from time to time, stage by stage in phased & planned manner by forces alien to Sanathana Dharma & its  Protectors to paralyse the *Whole Value Based System*.

The points of concern you specified are all part of the Values, Value  Based Systems, inclusive of the  customs & traditions  which we *boast* of very often, living in past glory.

I am addressing a Community / Group on a sensitive issue  with sincereity, honesty & concern, respect, regard to every Individual without excluding anyone and  appreciating all their aspirations &  sensitivities too with *no* malice whatsoever.

That's the reason,

I have begun this response with a pleasing acknowledgement to past week  achievements of Group Members; enthusiasm  for the following week and reminder of the Values;

The sensitivity, seriousness  of the subject issue & its  hazardous consequence for our future generations;

The possible reason & origin for the trends;

Our role & responsibility;

My profund attitude  with deep universal concern for our Community, inclusive of every PD;

Reminder on our Value Based System ( Sanathana Dharma)

Often through a decade over various social media, I have voiced @ *Community Oneness*. Even in this group, my only point of address always is Community Oneness ( the all encompassing)

When we talk of oneness, we are addressing *all issues* and the *current subject of discussion* is also included. 

There is a *Root Cause Analysis* and in my opinion- the analysis says it is  *Dilution of Values* and that Individually we are not as strong as we are, collectively.

Next, *we( parents)* should all *congregate* have *serious deliberations* on this & various other issues but with a *common goal*. We need to *plan strategies* based on all round views, concerns, sensitivities to *execute*  serious *actions of semblance and objectivity* in a *balanced ever beneficial way* for *each and every one and all* together.

The trust should be to *reverse* the trend by *Sustainable Development Initiatives* as practice of Sanathana Dharma to the core. There is a chance for many of us to get into *jitters* with this terminology of Sanathana Dharma. No need at all.

Certain elements in the so called Modern societies  are in a spree to eliminate. But they too are innocently unaware that they are suicide bombers.

So once again, this being a collective issue, it has to be addressed collectively, face to face with *detailed marathon deliberations*  to conclude to solutions, Safety, peace, tranquility & Prosperity to all with *Mutual Co-existence*  attitudes.

 That is Relationships @ Paramount. That is the Oneness Spirit for the Community. Of course, we can extend it to the World at large also, later on, once we are successful. Rather it would be an automatic process because then on no formal deliberations required.

Almost all of us are well qualified through "Macualay's Systems' of Education in India" whereby  also well established generations after generations  in efficient rendering of services to *Others*  

Whereas true education is all round Value Systems inculcation from Sanathana Dharma principles.

By virtue of our talents, skills, knowledge, intelligence & intellect, we tackle and solve so many issues & challenges in our decades of professional careers,

 *Why not, for the Community Oneness, we pool all our resources of strengths,* relevant for operating in this world to mutually benefit for Eternity   in a Sustainable way and take ourselves to the future, *instead of* struggling in our own cocoons for ever for generations and lead oblivious lives.

For each one of us, compared to our individual selves the Community is relatively more indespensable. 

A step we as a parent take today shall be a seed that would be reaped by our future generations *but many many times fold.*  This would also enable us a peaceful, contented never return exit from this plane else we would return may be as our own future generation or something else. God  Forbid This.

An agenda can be formalized to deliberate in groups of sittings face to face here and there( of places of convinence)BUT all from individual to common, willingness with a mutual benefit attitude. *Else* we can continue our *bliss of struggle* in our cocoons and pass on the legacy to our offsprings. They would also follow suit.

One thing we should remember is that as Individual or set of Individuals it would be futile to attempt @ challenging the trends but collective efforts definitely would bear the fruit.πŸ‘πŸ™‚πŸ™

Jai Hind! Jai Sanathana Dharma! Jai PD CommunityπŸ‘πŸ‘πŸ‘ŒπŸ€πŸ«‘πŸ™‚πŸ™


 ORIGINAL POST ON THE SUBJECT


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